Last week we went on what has become our annual August lake trip. I think this is the 3rd year in a row that we've gone up to the lake for a long stretch. This trip was Wednesday-Saturday. This trip was extra special because my sister that lives in AZ was there with her husband and baby! I hadn't seen my sister since January 2020 when we all gathered at a resort to celebrate my parents 50th wedding anniversary. A lot happened (hello, 2 babies were born!) since we last saw each other so it was wonderful to spend lots of time with them.
After our horrendous after-work drive in June, we opted to leave on Wednesday morning. We were in the car by 7:30 thanks to me pushing us along! I wanted to get to the lake ASAP! The drive wasn't too bad. Will barely napped of course but was fairly content except the last hour which he spent mostly screaming. Eeks. We stopped twice which seems to be the least numbers of times you can stop when you have a potty trained toddler and a breastfed baby. Hopefully some day we can do the drive (which is about 3 hours on a good day) with zero stops but I think we are a couple of years from that...
Wednesday was a really nice day! Maddy and Will played on the blanket together and enjoyed getting to know each other. My niece Maddy has the most epic facial expressions. Paul was similar and was so expressive. Will is just pretty much happy all the time which has earned him the nickname, "Chill Will."
Will and aunt Abby |
Will and Nana |
Papa and Will |
Always be smiling! |
On Saturday morning, I went for my long run of 7 miles. I'm slow compared to pre-baby pace but that's ok. I'm happy to be able to run and do something for myself!
This is a big week in our house as Phil turns 40 on Wednesday! I had suggested we have people over but he prefers a quiet celebration so we'll get take-out or grill dinner on Wednesday. My gift to him was arranging 3 rounds of golf with friends and family. I'm an excellent planner and, well, his friends aren't. So he'll be golfing a round with 3 of his best college buddies on Sunday - that was the most difficult to plan! On Friday afternoon he's golfing a round with 3 of his cousins. And then he'll golf one more round with my co-worker who he has become good friends with over the years as I've worked with or for this guy for 10 years! Phil is not at all materialistic and never wants anything so the gift of time doing something he loves and planning it for him was the best gift I could come up with!
How was your weekend? Do you have any annual trips that you take?
Love all the pictures of the cousins! Paul is so cute holding baby Maddy.
ReplyDeleteI remember the baby screaming in the car days so well. Max was TERRIBLE in the car for a long stretch of time. I am happy to report he is delightful in the car now ;) Hopefully by next summer you guys will be all set.
Happy 40th to Phil! That is an excellent birthday present idea. I have done that in the past for Eric but I should bring it back again since none of his friends have improved their planning skills in the last several years ha.
It looks like the time between the two rides was fabulous and the two rides -- not so much!
ReplyDeleteHappy 40, Phil! And to all the birthday folks! Thats a great idea for him. And I'm so glad you could be with your family. It sounds great.
Little Maddy is so cute! I love her side-eyeing capabilities. Impressive for a baby! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you had such a great trip to the lake again, even if the drive home was terrible. I also love giving myself a few days to recuperate from a trip before the grind starts again.
Lastly, I just LOVE the gift you put together for Phil! How thoughtful, especially considering all of the planning and corraling of schedules that you had to do!
I read this post in the car while we were driving the other day, but I can never comment on your blog from my phone for some reason!! Grr. I don't know what the issue is. Anyway, I was trying to say....awesome pictures! I love the ones with Auntie!! How sweet. I don't really have any recommendations for how to make driving with kids easier, besides, eventually electronics! Haha. We got a minivan when Asher was born and it had the DVD screen. Putting Barney videos on (this was years ago- Barney is probably not even a thing anymore) literally saved us sometimes. :) That doesn't really help really little babies, though. We didn't do too many driving trips though until I think Asher was around 3 and we drove to Niagara Falls. That was okay though, because he was old enough to join in and watch the movies by then! haha. Happy Birthday to Phil! It sounds like you got him the PERFECT gift. No sense in buying material stuff for people who just aren't into that! An experience gift sounds like the way to go.
ReplyDeletegifting planned golf outings is a great gift! what a wonderful idea! And how fun to have almost the whole family together!
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful to all be together! And your gift is just perfect - experiences > things for so many people.
ReplyDeleteAwww I’m finally getting around to reading this and that trip already feels like it was so long ago! Crazy how much Maddy and Will have changed/grown already since this visit. I am so glad we got to spend some quality time together .
ReplyDeleteChristopher and Phil seem so similar to me. Christopher too would prefer a quiet celebration to a party. He never wants to do anything for his birthday (he says it's just another day to him), but would totally be into the 3 rounds of golf! He prefers quiet, intimate get-togethers and being able to have a real conversation than mingling, etc. He's very much an introvert, but with a great sense of humor, and a complete lack of shyness (I am a little more on the shy side.)
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