Friday, January 7, 2022

TGIF

Oh man. This week has not been good. 2022 is not off to a great start for us, but I tell myself it can only get better. I spent the morning of New Years Day at Urgent Care with Will. He has another ear infection which I suspected for days but kept thinking maybe it was his molars. Then I spent Monday afternoon in our Children's Hospital ER with him because he spiked a 104 fever. We started out at Urgent Care but were sent to Children's given his age and the fact that he spiked such a high fever while on antibiotics. His flu, Covid, and RSV tests were all negative so it was his body fighting the ear infection or the bronchiolitis he also has? Who knows. He was very sick with tummy trouble on Tuesday, probably due to the antibiotics and his tummy has been off all week. His doctor called and said we now have a very strong case for getting tubes asap. We see the ENT this morning and I will be pushing HARD (but politely of course!) for that intervention. It is clearly not ideal to have your child put under for a procedure, but Will hasn't slept well for 3+ months and his little body has been through so much between the infections, serum sickness allergic reaction to Amoxicillin, high fevers, tummy troubles, etc. 

My sad, sick baby in the ER.

Then on Thursday afternoon, we found out there was a covid case in Paul's classroom. Le sigh. He can test on Monday and return on Tuesday if it's negative (how soon he can test/return is based on when the infected person was last in school). Will can still go to school since he's not considered a close contact, unless Paul becomes symptomatic. Plus we are trying to keep those 2 apart which means Paul will get a lot of iPad/TV time but it's what we need for survival right now. Fingers crossed he stays healthy and tests negative. I can't even think about a quarantine with 2 kids and the busy month at work I have ahead of me. 

But let me try to find some positive things to reflect on in this TGIF post!

The book I'm reading is Falling by T.J. Newman which is total brain candy. It's a thriller set on a plane. Once the plane is in flight, the pilot is told that his family is being held hostage by terrorists and he needs to either crash the plane or his family will be killed. You should probably not read this when you are on a plane or about to take a flight! It's a total page turner. 

The high of my week was honestly getting an ENT appointment so quickly. I almost broke down on the phone when the ENT scheduler said to check back in 2 days as they didn't have the referral yet and it takes time to get it in their system. She clearly sensed my desperation and made an exception and got us in today. I was very kind to the scheduling person - I would NEVER be rude to someone. I was just very clear that I was at my breaking point watching our little guy suffer and being up 3-5 times/night with him. 

The low of my week was the horrible sleep and seeing Will suffer. I feel like I have a newborn. He will give us a good 4-6 hour stretch at the beginning of the night but then he's up every 1.5-2 hours. Last night I was up with him from 10:30-1. He would just SCREAM when I tried to lay him down. I'm really hoping Will turns the corner soon so we can all go back to sleeping through the night.

A recipe I made was Lick Your Plate Coconut Chicken Curry. This is a favorite recipe in our house but something I haven't made in a long time! If you like the flavor of curry powder, this is a yummy, easy recipe! 

A show we are watching is nothing! We haven't been watching shows together as Paul's bedtime has been taking longer than usual and I've been so tired from all the wake-ups so we talk after Paul is in bed until I go to bed. On my own, I have been watching "Younger" on Hulu and I was thrilled that "This is Us" is back! Phil watched half of an episode with me this week and had a lot of commentary on the drama of this show! It is SO not a Phil show. He likes to say "this week, on a very special episode of This is Us" in a dramatic voice. But I love the show. 

For workouts I did not do much as I am giving my body a rest while I'm sleeping so poorly. I did do a cardio workout on Monday and went for a stroller walk with Will on Tuesday when the weather was mild. It's been HORRIBLY cold here on and off, like a high of 1F yesterday and a high of 9F today, but a feels like of like -20F of colder thanks to the wind. If it was nicer out, I would take some walks to get fresh air and clear my mind, but it's just too dangerously cold for me. 

The best money spent will happen today when we pay the other 50% of the cost of the conversion of our fireplace from wood-burning to gas. I am SO EXCITED to have this done! It's so freakishly cold outside so I am craving extra warmth. I can't wait to actually use our fireplace!!

My plans this weekend include nothing since Paul needs to quarantine. We'll spend some time outside tomorrow when it will be a balmy 30F but that's it. I had planned to get the boys' hair cut but had to cancel that. But at least the weather will be nice enough to be outside for one day of the weekend. This terrible, dangerous cold has been awful the deal with lately!

Bonus Will and Paul photos (plus a sunrise photo):

Will loves sitting in this little hand-me-down chair that Paul has sort of outgrown

All bundled up for our neighborhood walk

After Will goes to bed, we've been trying to play games and work on puzzles with Pablo to give him some focused quality time with us. Our favorite game is "My First Orchard Game." It's a super fast game and you work together to win so there isn't a winner/loser - which is helpful at this age when losing does not go over super well!

Despite not feeling the greatest, he's still pretty happy during the day, especially at bathtime!


This sunrise stopped me in my tracked on Tuesday. The photo doesn't do it justice of course! 


What was the high of your week? What books or shows are you watching?

7 comments:

  1. That IS a gorgeous sunrise. Hold onto that in the middle of the night when Will isn't sleeping. I'm so, so sorry you are having to dance the ENT dance again but it sounds like they have done a good job getting him scheduled and after that hospital visit I'm sure they''ll do the tubes. No wonder you can't watch! I'd just want quiet! Hang in there this weekend and thinking positive (or maybe I should say Negative) thoughts for Paul and his test.

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  2. I'm so, so sorry this is all happening to you right now. It is a special kind of helplessness to watch your baby suffer. Years ago, one of our kids had pneumonia and for 3 weeks it was like day and night had no bearing. It was all about surviving and antibiotics and vomit and sleepness nights.
    You've been doing this for even longer and I know you must be utterly exhausted.

    I was wondering about tubes; never fun, but hopefully the procedure will usher in speedy relief (my niece had them about that age and it made a WORLD of difference).

    Highlight of the week? Getting to Friday. I've been feeling pretty low with the kids home for three straight weeks now, going back to school virtually next week, going back to work, monthly hormonal fluctuations and very cold, snowy weather. So getting to a weekend feels slightly relieving. We also lost power twice over the last 24 hours, so having it come back on much earlier (like 10 hours earlier than the website said) than projected this morning, my shower felt AMAZING!

    Watching - art documentaries with my husband (we both LOVE art and documentaries; The Lost Leonardo was great, as well as one about M.C. Escher). Reading - Fast, Feast, Repeat (I've done intermittent fasting off/on for years, and this was a good reminder of why I love it; hard sometimes with the kids home, but I DO feel better when I eat this way) + How To Be Sad (a bit meh about the book, but her chapters on parenting and how tough it can be/the guilt we feel about complaining are SPOT ON!).

    Wishing all the best for you - a speedy recovery, a successful outcome with the ENT and ALL NEGATIVE COVID TESTS!

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  3. When I started this post, I was thinking "that poor boy needs tubes!" So I was very glad when you said that's the plan! I really hope it all goes well and you can get that surgery scheduled. It has to be so uncomfortable for Will, and you cannot keep surviving on such lack of sleep!

    As always, I am astounded by how different our weather is this time of year. Today is a high of 80F! I had to decide if I wanted to wear long jeans or shorts, hahaha. We got down to 50 degrees earlier this week, so that was fun!

    The high of my week was my annual review. It's kinda nice when the review starts off with my director saying, "You listed a lot of your achievements in your self-assessment, but you forgot a bunch of important ones." HA. And my promotion to manager will be announced soon, so I am so looking forward to it all being out in the open!

    I'm currently listening to All the Devils Are Here by Louise Penny (so close to catching up to her new release!) as well as reading Battle Royal by Lucy Parker. And I'm watching Brooklyn 99 and Younger. :)

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  4. Having a sick child really is the worst. They don't understand what's going on and you just feel so hopeless. I hope your trip to the ENT goes well and you don't have to advocate too hard for tubes.

    Just reading your description of that thriller set on a book made me nervous. I think it's clear why I mostly steer away from thrillers!!

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  5. Awwww, poor little buddy!!!! I hate when kids have to do deal with that. That sounds so rough! You are really going through a crappy patch right now. I'm so sorry!! Like I said in my email recently, I promise it eventually does get better....but I know it feels like these stages take forever, in the moment. And ugh about the covid quarantine stuff. That is the very yucky icing on the cake, isn't it. It seems like half the families we know have covid right now or just got over it, etc. It's making the rounds! The good news is, every single person we know has had a very mild case- just minor cold symptoms. So, I'm very thankful and hopeful that this new variant is the start of the end! Asher said, " Can't some guy who has covid just go stand in a booth and let people come up and sneeze on them, so everyone who wants to just get it over with can get covid already and move on??" Haha. Reminded me of when my mom said people used to have chicken pox parties when they were kids. I told him it's not a terrible idea, but most people probably won't go for that. ;) LOL!

    YAY for the fireplace! I'm so excited for you. We have ours on constantly. It's been soooo cold this past week. Can't wait to see some pictures.

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  6. I hope that Will can get his tubes soon and not have to suffer any longer! All in all, he does seem like a pretty cheerful chap though! I bet he will feel much better afterward. I guess on top of it all having it be so cold + quarantine is a bit of a bummer. I hope that this week is going better for you!!!

    We had a "cold" week a couple of weeks ago where it was in the 20s at night and 40s during the day, and have had a ton of rain (and snow!) but it's back doing it's normal Bay Area winter now, and is probably 40/60 on a normal basis....just 60+ degrees warmer than you, no big deal! Any time you guys want to come and visit, feel free!

    I just watched the first episode of the latest season of This is Us too! I know, it's a total chick drama, but I like it and I feel that they do bring up some interesting things and they did not ignore COVID but actually included it in the show (although it did not last as long as real COVID!) I am also still watching Greys Anatomy when there are new episodes (can still watch this for free on ABC online too!) and am slooooowly making my way through Narcos. Other than that, I have been watching a lot of YouTube videos of cooking and camping and hiking and organizing etc... it really is a wormhole, but I have found some really useful stuff!

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  7. I am so sorry you had such a rough start to the new year and poor Will... he's really been through a lot (and so have you) and I am glad to hear he'll be getting tubes.

    Thanks for sharing the recipe - that curry looks delicious.

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